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ten tips about
sexual Relationships
in Kidney Failure
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Some -- but by no means all -- patients with kidney failure experience sexual problems. This aspect of the disorder is well-recognised and the medical staff taking care of you will be happy to talk to you and your partner about them in complete confidence. All you may need is a little reassurance.
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As chronic renal failure progresses your periods of feeling unwell may result in your having less energy for sex. This can affect both you and your partner.
  Once you begin dialysis, you may find your sex drive returns, but kidney patients are usually less sexually active than healthy people.
  Women may find they have orgasms less often. Men may have difficulty in getting erections, often because of the drugs they are taking, through having a poorer-than-normal blood circulation, or because of changes to the nervous system.
  Several treatments for impotence are available: vacuum pump; glyceryl trinitrate (GTN) patch; and papaverine injections.
  Some patients worry about the effect seeing a fistula, sub-clavian catheter or peritoneal catheter will have on a partner. Others worry about the effects of weight loss (haemodialysis patients) or weight gain (peritoneal dialysis). Explore these fears together and try to overcome them.
  Levels of fertility, too, can vary during the different stages of renal failure.
  Men on Continuous Ambulatory Peritoneal Dialysis can stay fertile and, if sexually active, can make a partner pregnant.
  But, although a few women have had babies while on dialysis, a successful pregnancy is uncommon. Unfortunately, dialysis carries with it a high risk of spontaneous abortion. So, you will probably be advised to use contraception.
  Barrier methods -- a condom or a diaphragm -- are the best choice of contraception in kidney patients. The coil can cause infections and heavy periods and oral contraception tends to increase blood pressure, although this is less common with the combined Pill than the progestogen-only Pill. An alternative is use of the "Morning After" Pill.
  After transplantation, most women find that their menstrual cycle returns to normal and both men and women find that sexual activity improves within a few months.
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  More information is available in a leaflet Sexual Relationships in Kidney Failure published by the National Kidney Federation, which you can order by calling the helpline on: 0845 601 02 09 or by e-mail: nkf@kidney.org.uk or write to: The NKF, 6 Stanley Street, Worksop, Notts, S81 7HX.
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  Our thanks go to the National Kidney Federation for their contribution to this site